Everything that you have been going through from childhood to adulthood, bad or good, has a powerful meaning behind, but time waits for no one. God's timing is on time and never too late. When things become too much, and you can't handle the situation, the situation should make you better, not bitter. I tell my grown-up children that whatever happens in life-good, bad, and ugly-is not for you. It is to help someone who has been through the same situation, and you can be a blessing to them.