Fawning: why the need to please makes us lose ourselves--and how to find our way back
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Published:
New York : G. P. Putnam's Sons, [2025].
Format:
Book
Physical Desc:
xii, 286 pages ; 24 cm
Status:
5 copies, 3 people are on the wait list.
Description
"From a clinical psychologist and expert in complex trauma recovery comes a powerful guide introducing fawning, an often-overlooked piece of the fight-flight-freeze reaction to trauma-explaining what it is, why it happens, and how to help survivors regain their voice and sense of self."-- Provided by publisher.
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East Hampton New Adult Nonfiction
155.93 CLA
Due Nov 10, 2025
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New 158.2 Clayton
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155.93 Clayton, Ingrid
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Language:
English
ISBN:
9798217045327
Notes
Bibliography
Includes bibliographical references (pages 275-277) and index.
Description
"From a clinical psychologist and expert in complex trauma recovery comes a powerful guide introducing fawning, an often-overlooked piece of the fight-flight-freeze reaction to trauma-explaining what it is, why it happens, and how to help survivors regain their voice and sense of self."-- Provided by publisher.
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APA Citation (style guide)
Clayton, I. (2025). Fawning: why the need to please makes us lose ourselves--and how to find our way back. G. P. Putnam's Sons.
Chicago / Turabian - Author Date Citation (style guide)Clayton, Ingrid, 1974-. 2025. Fawning: Why the Need to Please Makes Us Lose Ourselves--and How to Find Our Way Back. G. P. Putnam's Sons.
Chicago / Turabian - Humanities Citation (style guide)Clayton, Ingrid, 1974-, Fawning: Why the Need to Please Makes Us Lose Ourselves--and How to Find Our Way Back. G. P. Putnam's Sons, 2025.
MLA Citation (style guide)Clayton, Ingrid. Fawning: Why the Need to Please Makes Us Lose Ourselves--and How to Find Our Way Back. G. P. Putnam's Sons, 2025.
Note! Citation formats are based on standards as of July 2022. Citations contain only title, author, edition, publisher, and year published. Citations should be used as a guideline and should be double checked for accuracy.
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